I’ve only ever been attracted to nerds. They’re the only type of men I’ve ever been attracted to. I don’t fully know why, but the morbidly obese variety just melt my heart. They are so adorable.

When I mean nerd, I mean someone who looks and acts the stereotype. No facial hear (beards/facial hair is a turn off for me), plaid or other clothing associated with nerds, a nerdy hairstyle, glasses, etc. It’s so cute when they go on and on about something they’re so passionate about like action figures, science, and comic books.

My boyfriend matches that description and I love him more than anything else in the world. He’s 5"11 and 350 pounds. His chubby cheeks are so cute. He’s so gentle, kind and sweet, and very intelligent. I love to cuddle him, he’s like a giant teddy bear of a pillow and the hugs are amazing. So so soft and warm. His obesity is genetic and he doesn’t have any health problems from it, his thyroid, blood pressure, cholesterol, blood sugar etc are all normal.

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    7 months ago

    I mean, generally good for you. Couldn’t disagree more, so have an upvote.

    However:

    He’s 5"11 and 350 pounds. […] His obesity is genetic and he doesn’t have any health problems from it

    I call bullshit on that. That’s a BMI of almost 50 at this point just walking will ruining your joints because of how much weight you put on them. There is a reason it’s called “morbidly obese”. There is no way you can remain otherwise healthy at this weight for more then a couple of years.