I can’t even afford taking care of myself but if I have kid, I would adopt instead of “making my own kid”. Why not this is not popular? These kids already came to this shithole (world) and we’re just ignoring them.
I know the answer actually, we’re just slave to our instincts…
My friends were telling me, that my wife and I are not capable of raising a traumatized child from 7 or 10 or whatever.