Let’s not aspire to happiness. Your brain is not wired to be happy all the time. Everyone will always come back down to baseline it’s programmed into our biology/psychology. Maybe it’s better to be content and accept the things you already have

It’s similar to the difference between toilet paper and facial tissues. Size, texture, materials, thickness… etc.

You can be born in a western country as an East Asian and still also be called a foreigner and asked where are you really from