I tried looking it up and and didn’t find anything What’s the reference?

Would carbon fiber be better than abs?

Apparently porn based on all the bans in the south.

Got to keep the heart rate up!

Lib v lib violence

Very unexpected.

Likely fried chicken

Actually would make sense if this was a spinning black hole. If true humans need to tech up harder.

https://youtu.be/ulCdoCfw-bY?zrIJ70iCFRaMgoFd

I know your right with what you wrote.

It was that level of persistence I got my partner in the first place but if there is no “cure” then i should apply it to fix myself to match? I lack the imagination to do something that isn’t cheating or internet since I’m too scared to try mind altering medication. I’m real curious what pro has to say. I have nothing to lose…probably.

Whataboutism at its core I think.

What do I even describe this to a therapist as? My partner doesn’t want say they are asexual but all the signs are there. Help me be cool with it when I’m the literal opposite end of the spectrum? I feel if I stop trying, then that’s me giving up on her.

Yeah basically what you wrote is accurate. No therapy though. She won’t take it. I asked several times.

I think the crux of issue is a blame myself for all this. I get told no " it’s not you, it’s me" but I still feel like a failure of a partner.

Not OP case but 2 decades later with no change is demoralizing.

Nothing has worked consistently.

Does she enjoy it? sometimes but It’s like taking out the trash. 0 sex again would have zero impact. Liquor helps but only drinks at restaurants and only with a meal. So 99% of the time, just too full to make use of it. Suspected the bc but she was off them for a few years, no change. No medication either. Lost weight 0 change. In college, we thought it was Stress levels but it’s lower now with no change.

Now no cuddles or daily massages would be an issue for her. Withhold for a few days and watch that blow up.

It’s always been a chasm in the relationship.

Literally thinking of going back to the old country. Least I could own a compound for that i pay for a caravan in a first world country. If only I liked sun…

For my area it’s all of them. Could have afforded a home a few years back. If you bought in 2014, 23000 got you a massive home with 4 car garage. Now that how is 600000.

my partner just want cuddles.

I like eating peaches!

We are not the same.

What if she’s been on BC for almost 20 years and never masturbates ever because it doesn’t “work” Toys also do not “work”. Also eating peach with different methods with genuine enthusiasm doesn’t work.

Note: This is not /s I’m being legit.

As it should be!

Depending on what causes the sterility it could be managed through diffecountries. It’s like huge spark to class warfare instantly. especially for less well off counrries.